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2016 Week06-Linking

I’m getting a fix on how to link…and learning to train myself to do it…to focus on linking. It brings back thoughts of ….you know how you never really see any Subaru’s on the road…UNTIL you buy one, then they’re all over the place!? Kinda like that! My challenge has been trying to remember to remember…does that make sense? Kinda like the before stage of seeing Subaru’s on the road…before you are sitting in one driving it. Hmmmmm Experiment thought…tomorrow look for Subaru’s. At the end of the day write that number down. …or did you get home and forget all about looking for Subaru’s? …my experiment; I look for Blue Rectangles …2 new customers, 2 new clients, 2 new business partners 12/31/16, Red Circles …save my clients $500,000.00 12/31/16, Green Triangles…Managing Director 12/31/16, and Yellow Squares…10 clients & 250 customers 12/31/16. I’ll tell you if I do as well as the Subaru results 😉

I’m going through an amazing learning journey that is hard to put into words. Well…okay…maybe two… my new favorite words; Awareness and Perspective. When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. Oh my goodness, YES! When you realize that you are in control of WHAT you are looking for…and you use that power for good, to search for only good, which is exactly what we want for ourselves anyway, really…right? Then only good you will find and all that good that you’ll find will make you just that much more positive and happier…yes? Oh….I smell another experiment coming; Let’s count how many good things we can see tomorrow. A random act of kindness…or any other small incident that touches your heart or makes you smile. I know there have been a lot more sightings by me! …and if I can get more people looking for happy, wouldn’t that bring more happiness into our world? I Believe …Blessings

2016 Week05-MyDMP

Leaving you hanging on my Definite Major Purpose…shame on me! 😉

My PPN’s are: Helping Others and Liberty

I awake each morning excited and grateful for the blessing and promise of a new day. Enthusiasm swells inside me and starts driving every cell in my body toward creating new ways to help others with my network marketing experience and financial wisdom. Whomever God decides to put in my path today, I will help. I help people without expectation of reciprocity because I know I am in the dynamic flow of giving and receiving. I am Whole, Perfect, Strong, Powerful, Loving, Harmonious and Happy.
By helping 2 more people become my Ambit customers, 2 more people become my Common Sense clients, and 2 more people join with me as business partners, on or before January 31st, 2017, I have made at least $10,000.00. Everyday I gladly exchange watching TV and hanging out, for productive time, working with business partners, clients, and suspects, to acquire the money that is mine. On or before July 31st, 2017, I have hit the $10,000.00/month income level and tears of happiness stream down my face as I realize I have reached Liberty!
I am effortlessly connecting with smart, motivated, coachable people, hundreds of them, that blooms confidence inside me like a rose bud blooming and sharing her beauty for all to enjoy. Each person that joins with me boosts my spirit and enthusiasm and from within I erupt with even more unrestrained happiness as I have connected to what my heart wants, helping others financially and spiritually.
Collaborating with these people, using the Hero’s Journey skills, helps us to identify their hopes and dreams. Helping them reach their goals fulfills me more deeply than I could have ever imagined. On or before December 31st, 2016, I have saved my clients over $500,000.00 of interest they will never pay a lending institution.
My positive, enthusiastic attitude continues to bring me to higher and higher levels of success, education, and knowledge. My enthusiasm, confidence, intelligence, achievements, friends, happiness and wealth are growing daily by leaps and bounds, which makes me feel absolutely ecstatic and unstoppable.
Each time I bring someone from not knowing or understanding the big picture of his or her financial situation to knowing and understanding it and implementing a strategy that creates their debt free future, it makes me feel rewarded, grateful, fulfilled and complete.

2016 Week04-DMP

Definite Major Purpose

MY Definite Major Purpose

Fifty-some odd years in the making…FINALLY initialized and beginning! I was going to say done…but then realized, it will never be done…it will always be changing and evolving, like me!

For as long as I can remember people always asked me…what do you want to be when you grow up, what do you want to be…and now in the MKMMA Mark asks me “WHAT DO YOU WANT?” Yikes! Stop asking me….I don’t know!!! I would go round and round and round in my head trying so hard to narrow down what I wanted to do. I had always had problems making decisions in my life…even the simple ones, so how was I supposed to decide this…and do I really have to???

I came across a read which brought about an awareness which brought about a change in me and my attitude about making decisions. NOT making a decision, especially when others are involved, was…is, the ultimate self-centered, controlling trait of someone to be in control of someone else. Another Yikes! The more I thought about this…the truer it seem to become. Then I become involved in situations where my lack of decision-making became a strain on the people involved…and I began to see this analysis as truth…and it was not very pretty. Of course awareness leads to a change of perspective…and perspective, to me, means a reason to change when what you are looking at doesn’t please oneself.

So I have started focusing on making decisions. A great perspective came to me in another read; God did not put in me the ability to make the right decision every time, but he did put in me the ability to make a decision and then make it right! Making decisions has become my new awareness and my new goals. Deciding that my two PPN’s (Personal Pivotal Needs) are Helping Others and Liberty, started me on my way to focusing on what I want. Now I formulate incorporating my Personal Pivotal Needs into my life!…into my NEW life!!!

2016 Week03-Focus

I was trying to get in my head this week what I need to have in order to be able to do better than before. Some of the words I brainstorm with are; Focus, Understanding, Action Plan, Scheduled, Commitment, Concentration, Practice, Taking Action, Hard Work, Big Payoff, Discipline, Drive, Desire, Why, Success. There is a level of commitment … or schedule of events that I need to acquire. I am working my way toward acquiring the right blend of each of the qualities mentioned before to jump start me up onto the next level of my life.

It is sometimes during these times of thinking and writing that things click for me. Sometimes even after reading my writing something clicks or I become aware of something. Sometimes someone will leave a comment that brings everything all together for me and I am filled with gratitude. Thank you.

This week, as each week, I renew myself. I renew my thinking, I think, I sit, I meditate…I create my world within to create my world without. I listen to my heart, not only allowing but, actually focusing on having it guide me. It feels so …like a weight has been lifted off of me… so… free to be able to do what I want!!! I schedule each day for what I want to do… simply amazing! Why had I not been able to see what I see so clearly now…then? …because I did not have the awareness… because I didn’t want to step out into the unknown, the scary unknown. Old quiet desperation was a lot more comfortable and familiar than stepping outside that realm and seeing what the world was waiting to share with me!

Looking forward to tomorrow!

2016-Week02-Zoom

…and 2 weeks are gone…BAM! Time has a new perspective to me…I LOVE MY NEW LIFE!!! Doing what I want…really…freaking…awesome! When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. WOW!…there’s a mouthful because soooo many things are changing for me. I used to have thought that things were changing and not understood the reason those things changed was simply because I was looking at them differently. So many new things to look at! The world is full of little inexplicable miracles which I am blessed to be a part of.

Third time’s the charm they say…well hello third time! Last year I was able to let go of my 30 year banana, this year I am really excited to see what letting go of the life I had so that I can have the life that I want produces. Nose to the grindstone (no nose comments)…now. I need to get into my planner and write my life into play. I find that the more I have in my planner…written in my handwriting, the more I get accomplished. If it isn’t written, it is not true- I have heard and now understand why. I notice having it in my passion planner gets it done! …but yet I still strive to use it as much as I wish I could…blue, red, green, yellow colored pencils and using my left hand feels so not like me…so cool!

I am trying to get the linking going on but it is taking a lot of … … trying to remember what I am supposed to be thinking…linking. Blue rectangle, or blue, or rectangle…2 more customers, 2 more clients, 2 more business partners by December 31st, 2016. How do I keep that in my mind…get it into my mind, let it into my mind and past the gatekeeper to get it into my subconscious where it will take care of the linking from now on so I don’t have to worry about worrying about it anymore 😉

Focus Danielson, FOCUS!

I Believe!

2016 Week01-Beginning

Already September 25th is upon me again. Years fly by as months used to. How many Septembers do I have left? As the 3rd session of the MKMMA begins, I am happier than I was last year at this time and I look forward to this session with a “3rd times the charm” optimism. Last year I let go of my banana 3 months after the start of the session. 3o years with Snap-on Tools seemed not only enough, but after I let go, it seemed like way too many! It amazes me that when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. I’ll keep sharing my two favorite words: awareness and perspective. When your awareness of something surfaces, there is a complete new perspective of it. These words have been such a huge part of my life these last two years and I will continue chipping off the cement and searching for my gold. For those that ask “What the heck does that mean?”


I am pretty excited for what is about to happen in the next 6 months as I strike out on my journey again. I am grateful for and to those that will be with me, will support me and those that will accept me as I continue changing myself to be the person that I want to be and chase my dream that is calling. I Believe!

2015 Week 23-Emotions

I have been filled with feelings of happiness, gratitude, kindness, forgiveness, love, peace, faith, (I really could go on and on 😉 ) and an inner tranquility that I just can not believe I am experiencing…just simply amazing.  My life has taken an abrupt exit…you know on those shows when they are traveling down the highway…desert on both sides…and all-of-a-sudden they yank the wheel into a hard right turn and the car screeches sideways and shoots off the road into the sand and they are blowing through tumbleweeds and bushes and jumping the sand dunes…like that my life changed direction!  I jumped off that road of negativity…having to do what I had to do…living my life one dreadful day after another.  Hoping that “something” would happen… hoping that something would change.  “You must be the change you wish to see in the world.” Gandhi said.  I grabbed that steering wheel…I cranked it hard right!!!  I keep waiting to wake up from this dream.  Everything around me has changed…is changing.  I know now though: change comes from within.  I am changing.  I am chipping the cement off me because I have seen my gold.  I am following my heart…chasing my dream…enjoying every day as the gift that it is.  I am happy…happier than I have been in a long, long time.  The universe is exactly as it should be.

“Why should I permit the petty happenings of today to disturb me?”  I don’t!  “This too shall pass.”  Each day will be triumphant only when my smiles bring forth smiles from others and this I do in selfishness.”

Believe

More importantly…do something…take action now!  MKMMA

 

2015 Week 22-Acceptance

This morning’s read has struck me, well… *palm smacking the forehead*

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“Satan is our enemy and his goal is to get us so emotionally rattled that we say things that will provide him with an opening into our lives, or he hopes that we will make unwise decisions during painful times and create messes that we will have to deal with for a long, long time afterward.”

I did not understand that if I could hold my tongue and remain emotionally stable during times of difficulty, then I would be honoring God and letting the devil know that he is not going to control me. I am not 100% successful at doing this… yet, but I am moving forward. And while I am not where I need to be, or want to be, I know that I am at least a lot further ahead of where I used to be. It is through this growth that I have learned the importance of managing my emotions….BUT…. it is so freaking hard!!!! …Just like being the silent, non-opinionated observer!!!!! But BUT BUT…. I got plenty of buts…it’s the doing I’m a having a problem with 😉

Last night was another situation…test…opportunity. Walking into a bar with Rory, my son, in Baltimore, I was asked to remove my hat, while he was getting a drink menu from the barmaid. Turning around from the barmaid he asked me what happened. “He told me to remove my hat”, I answered. We left. We discussed the situation and our feelings about it while we walked to another bar. Next bar, same attitude. I removed my hat. I think about week 23’s webinar that I just listened to on the way to Conn…particularly Trish’s presentation on humility…no resistance… “Effortless Ease” – “Nature’s intelligence functions with effortless ease… with carefreeness, harmony and love. And when we harness the forces of harmony, joy, and love, we create success and good fortune with effortless ease.”

What am I pretending not to know?

Fifty some odd years has shaped me…made me what I am today. I am fighting and mourning the loss of the old me, yet I am accepting… I am celebrating the birth of the new me and enjoying this journey so much! I am letting go of what I no longer need to have the life I desire. So freaking cool!!!

2015 Week 21-Monthly Reflection

~ What was the most memorable part of this past month?  Describe it?

Lake Placid with my Honeykins! ??

Walking the streets hand in hand enjoying each others company – communicating and appreciating being with each other.  Scarfs and pants and …. a sweet Spyder jacket and awesome Stetson hat!  Prime rib and baby back ribs and a Bailey’s with my honey back home.

~ What were the three biggest lessons you’ve learned in this past month?

I need to use my planner more

I need to exercise

FEAR = Lack of Faith

~ Review your planner for past month and assess your priorities.  Are you happy with how you spent your time?

NO

~ What steps can you take this next month to adjust them?

Live in my planner!

Sit a lot more!

~ How are you different between this past month and the month before it?

I am happier… grateful…. and moving forward.  I am loving the journey and accept that the universe is exactly the way it is suppose to be.  Listening to the bits and pieces I get from my heart and loving the opportunities that I am seeing all around me – along with kindness.  Time to FOCUS DANIELSON…. FOCUS!

~ What or who are you especially grateful for this past month?

My Wife – The Extraordinary Eileen!  So awesome to be connecting in our speaking to each other on such a deeper level.  Heart felt verses eggshell tip-toeing conversation.  Like we were…are becoming closer.  Sharing a part of each other with each other ❤

~ Name three things you can improve on this upcoming month?  What are concrete actions you can take to work towards these improvements?

Appointment setting.
– Pick up the phone

Schedule following.
– Make appointments and schedule to follow.

Exercise.
– Schedule it.  …5 k getting awful close…

~ From 1- 10, how do you feel overall about this past month?

9 – It was awesome!!!

Living For Others

2015 Week 20-Sharing

Caring is sharing, so I am sharing.

Today Extraordinary Eileen guided our day.  Something about the give more/get more mind set is starting to take root in my brain and by giving my beautiful bride the reins to guide our day today, it somehow brought me even more joy.  We journeyed into Mystic, CT for the annual Cabin Fever Charity Chowda (as Mark would say it) Cook-off.  It was awesome how many people were out and about and even though the wind and temperature reminded me of my northeast location during the winter season, the bright intense sunshine reminded me of summer days.

Because I am not normally in an environment with so many people around, I took this opportunity to be the observer, to watch and I decided to look for kindness.  I am realizing now how the world around me is starting to change.  Yes, I know…as what I choose to focus on will grow and what I choose not to focus on will atrophy, it is all about what I want to see…what I want my world to be, full of kindness and friendly thoughtful people.

First kindness gesture I spotted was a young girl giving her leftover tickets to someone.  I shared with my wife what I had spotted and how happy it made me feel inside to see this act of kindness somewhere that I had not really felt there were very many kind people.  To further my feelings of inspiration and hope for this area that I did not feel was the best area for spotting these random acts of kindness, a young boy held out his tickets to me.  His mother stepped up and asked him if he was sure that he wanted to give their leftover tickets to me.  The boy nodded yes and the mother explained that they had their fill of chowder and wanted to know if I would like the rest of their tickets.

As I turned to Extraordinary Eileen and explained what had just happened, we just shared a look of mutual disbelief and accepted the fact that we were a part of something so much larger than we ever expected.  She wanted to make mass, which she thought was at 4 and we decided better to be a little late than to miss all of it.  We got to church just after 4 and the empty parking lot gave us a little hope.  Mass started at 5 and we went into the church as I suggested that we do a sit together as we wait for mass to start.  I don’t know where the hour went!!???

It is pretty amazing to me how awareness and perspective can change, have been changing…everything.  It is very difficult to change things that have become life-long habits, but…I really do want something different than what I have had.  While they may only be baby steps…I’ll take them!  It has taken me a long time to become who I am…I have no problem focusing on what I really what to become and moving in that direction.  Any forward progress inspires me yet I do understand that there will be days that I will feel as if I have fallen backwards.  I choose to believe that I am exactly where I am suppose to be in my journey.  I am looking forward to the wonderful miraculous changes ahead of me.

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